
In the nature/nurture debate on palate range, I used to be a staunch proponent of the nurture argument. I’ve always attributed my open, inclusive eating habits to my multicultural upbringing–one that had me munching on Époisses and pig’s ears before I could read. I have approached picky eaters with scorn, and prided myself on converting the men in my life to broccoli and sea creatures; where copious amounts of garlic have failed, I’ve relied on copious amounts of scolding.
Then I brought home my second bunny, and now I’m not so sure.
My older rabbit, Peanut, has never been one for carrots. You can wave them in her face or leave them in her cage, and she couldn’t care less. After two years with a carrot-shunning rabbit, I had decided that the rabbit-carrot association was pure myth.
So I was quite surprised when a baby carrot sent baby Brodsky into paroxysms of delight.
If you can’t get rabbits to agree on carrots, there may just be something to this idea of innate likes and dislikes. Say your mother routinely over-boiled her vegetables, or you spent any part of your childhood in Britain–let’s talk. But I’m now prepared to accept that there are food aversions no amount of culinary wizardry (or brow-beating) will overcome.
For me, they are: floral notes of any kind (rosewater, edible flowers, the orange blossom essence with which Moroccan cooks ruin otherwise glorious nut-and-honey pastries); whole cardamom pods in Indian gravies and pilafs; the aniseed wallop that makes licorice inedible, tarragon highly suspect, and fennel only barely tolerable.
What foods, despite your best efforts, do you despise?
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Peas. Never. Never. Never have I liked them, nor will I. Almost every other food I hated as a picky eater has entered my regular eats, but not peas. Give me an entire shepherd’s pie with just one pea in it and I will know from the first bite.Cheryl A added this comment on November 06 2008 at 3:05 pm
And I will eat calve’s liver, but don’t ask me to cook it. The smell of it raw grosses me out.
Sweet potatoes/yams have been my long-standing foe for as long as I can remember. My dislike of them reached legendary status in my family after a stand-off I had with my father when I was around 5-years-old. He said I wasn’t to leave the table until I cleaned my plate - which included some sweet potatoes. Sheer determination and will had me and the sweet potatoes still sitting at the dinner table come 9PM and Dad finally surrendered.Stephanie added this comment on November 06 2008 at 3:32 pm
The sight and smell alone are enough to make me dry heave today. I’ve never really been a picky eater (I had some fairly horrible food allergies growing up and I think it made me appreciate different foods more) but sweet potatoes are where I draw the line.
Coconut. Since birth I could detect the tiniest amounts of it in things. It’s the texture and the taste. I would never turn down any food involving chocolate unless it had coconut in it. Just to torment me, people seem to like to mix coconut and chocolate.Megan added this comment on November 06 2008 at 3:48 pm
For some reason I don’t mind coconut milk in Thai food though.
Your bunnies are super cute. My cat has turned out to be a picky eater. I bought her some fancy food yesterday that I thought might be better for her, since she seems to throw up more often than cats should, but she has barely touched it. They must put crack in Friskies, because she loves them.
Oh, and I have to agree about anise/black licorice, which is unbelievably popular in this part of the world. Ugh. I can chew and swallow coconut at least, but black licorice has to be spit out.Megan added this comment on November 06 2008 at 3:50 pm
red bell peppers.krista added this comment on November 06 2008 at 3:53 pm
especially roasted.
*gags*
oh, and pretty much any organ meat. i hate to say it because it’s so cliche and girly to say “eewww…i don’t wanna eat thaaatt” but i’ve tried. it’s a texture thing.
i also have a weird thing with avocado. love love love it. but it has to be mashed up completely. again, texture. i will gag if i bite into a whole piece of avocado.
the red bell peppers has nothing to do with texture..i purely despise them for exactly who they are.
Eggs. I can not eat anything that remotely tastes like eggs without it coming right back up. I am also not a big fan of cooked leaves, they really just lack any flavor for me.LittleWit added this comment on November 06 2008 at 4:02 pm
I seem to recall a recent article in the “New Yorker” discussing childhood food aversions. Evidently, parents have only a few years in which to introduce their children to a wide range of flavors. After the window closes (before age five, if I recall correctly), it takes years for the child to come around to new flavors. In this sense, a wide “taste vocabulary” has to be introduced earlier than spoken languages, which typically can be broached into the preteen years. I would imagine, however, that no parent could hope to teach a supertaster to overcome an aversion; the genetic component is just too strong.Brent added this comment on November 06 2008 at 4:09 pm
I’ll eat just about anything, but many foods I simply don’t seek out, which I suppose amounts to a gentle aversion to things like popcorn and mussels.
raw onions. G TO THE ROSS.poshdeluxe added this comment on November 06 2008 at 4:21 pm
even writing that comment made me throw up in my mouth a little.
turnips are a turn-off, no matter how hard i try. a dear friend made a birthday meal for me one year and i requested, (out of character) cheeseburgers and fries. She made turnip fries, thinking that would be more “me.” I had to gag them down, and it still makes me queasy to think of it.liz added this comment on November 06 2008 at 4:59 pm
and i am completely convinced some people’s palettes are just different. Like how some folks can taste cilantro, and others think it tastes like soap. Or those little papers they give you in biology class that taste like aspirin to some, and nothing to others. I forget what they were, but oh, gross.
and i’ve also had rabbits that loved carrots, but my current one does not, not even the carrot-tops which are usually a crowd pleaser. Carrots are really too starchy to be very good for bunny-kind, however.liz added this comment on November 06 2008 at 5:02 pm
Liver of any kind! I’ve tried it fried, in Pate, blended into Dirty Rice, with onion, you name it and there’s NO WAY I’m going to eat it. That old penny smell….it just makes me gag. I also agree with you on annis seed, although I do like Terragon and Fennel.Heidi added this comment on November 06 2008 at 5:08 pm
Parsley. I hate it. The taste makes me gag. I don’t mind whole pieces as garnish that I can pick up and take of my food but what is with the sprinkling it over everything.Samantha added this comment on November 06 2008 at 6:40 pm
I have to ask for no parsley whenever I order food in a restaurant as I’ve had too many meals ruined with that insidious weed.
Also bean shoots, but that’s more a texture thing, well that and when I was a kid my brother convinced me they were dead worms. I’ve never been able to eat them since then, even knowing what they really are.
eggs, cooked any way other than well scrambled. If I can see the difference between yolk and white, I will not eat it. When I order eggs, I state ‘all one color’, and I WILL send them back. totally a texture thing.D added this comment on November 06 2008 at 8:34 pm
Also, I will never, ever, ever eat frogs legs. that’s just nasty. I have refused to even serve them back when I was a waitress.
Other than that, there’s things I don’t particularly care for, but nothing that will make me ill. I don;t care for cucumbers, not fond of green olives, and wouldn’t seek out octopus, among other things.
oh, and the texture of raw bananas? that will make me gag.
Brussels sprouts, though I’m sure it is because I’ve never had one the way you cook them. Oddly, and I meant to post this on your blog, but I LOVE cow tongue. Growing up, my grandmother served it regularly and called it, get this, Maryland Ham.WPoFD added this comment on November 06 2008 at 8:42 pm
aawww your bunnies are adorable. I guess all my friends know I am a bunny lover b/c I got your blog link emailed to me by alot of them! HAHA. As for foods I won’t eat. Bananas. I think its a texture thing. Makes me gag. But my bunnies love them so I will peel a banana for them. Is that love or what? Definitely need to see more pics of your bunnies in the futureCB added this comment on November 06 2008 at 9:03 pm![]()
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I love all of your hates! More Panda licorice for me…Katie B added this comment on November 06 2008 at 11:26 pm
Food I HATE: parsnips; raw onions not in salsa, but even then I tend to avoid them with some deft chip maneuvers; Heinz Beans, which my husband eats every weekend.
PS Your rabbits look precious. I had a French lop growing up, Cindy. She would shove her face up my sleeve & sit there like that for hours.Katie B added this comment on November 06 2008 at 11:32 pm
game-y meat, like lamb and duck.ila added this comment on November 07 2008 at 12:28 am
tarragon.
fruit AND meat combos
i used to be anti carrot for most of my life, but i am okay with raw carrots nowadays. when rendered extra sweet and soft, my gag reflex goes into serious action.
ashamed as an asian…. shallots and onion.Vivian added this comment on November 07 2008 at 1:03 am
sigh. I think there’s actually a name for the phobia (and i throw up if i consume a piece (!))…..
it makes it very hard to be as 100% asian as i am!! I become a master at picking… *shame*
Wow. I’ll eat anything. Overcooked broccoli does make me want to die, though. And the red gloop this dank island calls sweet’n’sour sauce is pretty nasty.Calum Proctor added this comment on November 07 2008 at 8:05 am
Re: floral aversion. Aren’t you a fan of lavender?Diana added this comment on November 07 2008 at 8:50 am
I also can’t stand fennel, or milky-tasting alcohol or cocktails of any sort (Kahlua, White Russians, etc.)
Wow! What astonishes me about these hates y’all are confessing is how ubiquitous some of the ingredients are. How does a Chinese person negotiate an antipathy for allium? How do egg-fearers breakfast at diners?Michele Humes added this comment on November 07 2008 at 8:57 am
Diana, I reread my lavender post and was reminded that I hated it as a child but find that the objectionable part of the flavor disappears (for me) on cooking. Provence always smelled terrible to me!
Good theory. Now I feel better about my picky eater.Aimee added this comment on November 07 2008 at 11:37 am
i hate yams/sweet potatoes. i dated a black guy in college, thanksgiving, xmas and easter meals were excrutiating.Lan added this comment on November 07 2008 at 11:53 am
i’m also not a fan of peas.
i’ve never had it but i think i wouldn’t like figs or dates. fig newtons don’t count tho.
After some careful consideration, I’ve decided that there is one type or more like food technique that I absolutely abhor, and that is: foam! When I see foam on a menu or even worse on a plate, I want to rage against the chef who though it a trendy touch. It is neither trendy nor tasty. Usually it tastes like a soapy, salty, bodily fluid.atalie added this comment on November 07 2008 at 12:00 pm
yogurt, pudding, milk, sour cream, whip cream.gina added this comment on November 07 2008 at 1:22 pm
but i love love love cheese!
I can’t abide flan or souffle. It’s a texture thing, but I find them to be nasty. Also commercial salad dressings and flavored chips (other than Kettle Chips) they taste like chemicals and sugar.Julie added this comment on November 07 2008 at 1:27 pm
Oh darling foodesse, you covered my taste dislikes in your article! I only have limas to add - mealy beans are mostly a textural nightmare.sybann added this comment on November 07 2008 at 3:49 pm
Hominy or hominy grits. I can remember, as a child growing up in the south, crying when grits were served on my plate.Joanna added this comment on November 07 2008 at 5:06 pm
I hate olives, capers and dislike cucumbers (they’re ok but make me burp up a bad aftertaste…I’m an Asian who looooves sushi though so sometimes cucumbers are unavoidable).Melissa added this comment on November 07 2008 at 6:56 pm
Your bunnies are adorable. My dwarf LOVED apples. She would hear us cut one and come running. She would also eat parsley…thought carrots and lettuce were just OK.
Oh, good Lord, water chestnuts. *gag* I’m a raw-onion hater, as well–cook them and it’s all good.Amanda added this comment on November 07 2008 at 8:40 pm
There are a few other things I don’t care for, but I try to eat them anyway from time to time. It’s my attempt at trying to evolve from such dislikes.
But not with water chestnuts. Or raw onion.
i don’t like- but will eat- peppers and cilantro but i will NOT eat mushrooms. i can’t get over their fungal nature. but i grew up with the pickiest eater of all time, my sister, who refuses to eat anything that makes noises if stirred. she also hates sandwiches. once she threw up egg salad onto her dinner plate after my mom made her eat it.monika added this comment on November 08 2008 at 1:32 pm
caraway seeds…if those little mofos are in any form of bread, i will pick every single one off. They ruin any dish for me. i see them from a mile away and protest the dish.Paulina added this comment on November 10 2008 at 4:58 pm
Hey Michele,Vivian added this comment on November 10 2008 at 11:54 pm
Can we have more pics of Brodsky and Peanut please?
So cute!!!
These comments are a crack up! There are so few things that I won’t eat but lots of things I don’t like but not to the point of gaggiing. I don’t like eggs when they smell eggy or burnt. Well-done scrambled eggs are one of the few things I just can’t force myself to eat.Natty added this comment on November 11 2008 at 11:24 am
Temperature is the other thing that gets me. I want my hot foods HOT LIKE THE SUN and cold foods so cold, they burn a little.
I also really dislike the box-can-bag style of cooking (is that cooking?) You know, the “add a box of stuffing to a can to cream of mushroom soup and a bag of shredded cheddar! Bake and chow down!” Yucky.
Cooked green peppers [shudder]. I once had a boyfriend who ate, every single night, pan fried steak with onions and green peppers fried up with it in the meat fat. I had to break up with him.Lydia added this comment on November 11 2008 at 7:30 pm
I have nothing to add to the discussion, except: that is one freakin’ cute bunny photo.La (to the) Ra added this comment on November 17 2008 at 12:37 pm
For some reason, banana/ banana flavored things…just the thought of it is horrible (however banana muffins/bread & flambe are fine…just the raw banana)Magsy added this comment on December 02 2008 at 5:14 pm
oh and mint chocolat, what a way to ruin 2 perfectly delicious foods
Just realized I hadn’t read your blog for a while, so am now browsing through the archive and the comments on this one made me laugh. I totally lean toward the nurture theory. Stop being fussy! Ali claims he is a “supertaster”, but I am very sceptical. I know I may not be one to talk, given my dietary choices, but within the “veggie” limits I’ll eat absolutely anything. Actually the only things that I severely dislike are pork/bacon and fishy-smelling seafood, but wretching would still be a rather extreme reaction. What is wrong with everyone?!!Laura added this comment on December 04 2008 at 6:36 am![]()
So many of people’s dislikes are actually some of my top-rated foods!Michele Humes added this comment on December 04 2008 at 4:59 pm
Laura, I feel like your “dietary choices” cut out a pretty big swathe of available foods! That said, a lot of the comments here are about vegetarian items. So much fungus-hate, people–why?!
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